How about telling me some of your favorite things to do then… it might be nice to have an idea bowl to draw from. But besides that maybe I could even ~entice my friend with some of them. [ extreme, oho, he’s so curious. ]

…ah, that’s a bit depressing if I’m being honest. Maybe one day they’ll enjoy the relationship as much as you two do. You are their leader, but you’re still a person, and if they can see beyond your title, then perhaps they’ll give you your happiness.